squam mamas & squam babes

 


There are many stories within stories about the squam experience, but one lesser known tale is that quietly woven through the wild weekend gatherings are the mamas who have come with babies (in their arms or in their bellies).

Sometimes people get a little freaky on me when they learn that little ones might be at squam since it is most definitely an adult retreat and for many, it is a time to be away from kids-- but as I have assured them-- we have never had a squam without babies or pregnant mamas present-- and it has never been an issue as in some magical way, the mamas and their little ones manage to integrate seamlessly into our very midst and we are all so very much richer for their presence.

Today, as I announce that our beloved Christine (pictured on left) will be headed out on maternity leave at the end of this month, I would like to take the opportunity to celebrate all the squam mamas among us.

At our very first gathering in 2008, we had Brittany Soucy who was five months pregnant with twins-- and yet she did all the same walking to and from classes, meals & cottages-- and people, if you've never been to RDC-- there is much with the walking to and fro. (Let it be known that my Brittany fangirl t-shirt is always hand-washed with extreme care!)

Also pioneering* & pregnant were Nina Gilbert, Jen Diamond, teacher Penelope Dullaghan and Pixie Campbell who was not only pregnant but brought her son Miles who was then two years old. Wendy Cook was another brave soul who came that first year and brought her young son along, too.

:: I believe Pixie was celebrating her birthday -- and boy howdy!  That's one way to say, it's time for mama to have some fun. ::

Since that inaugural September-- we've had more pregnant mamas in attendance including Megan McConnaughey, Stacie DeLaRosa, Arabella Crawford, and teacher Lauren Smith.  We've also gotten to meet the babies of squam teachers Bea Peltre & Lulu, Megan Ingman and Elwood, Sarah Ahearn and Ada, Penelope Dullaghan and Veda.  And let's not forget Amanda Blake Soule's precious Harper when he was just a bitty babe and the unicorn loving Penelope and Graham Griffeon.

Christine has been on all sides of the experience. 

She came in 2009 to our very first June session with her mom and then came back in 2010 pregnant with little Vijay.  Last Fall she came back to teach at Squam and brought her little man, then ten months old, with her. 

And now, this July she will be bringing her second son into the world and so we must allow her to abandon us.

Temporarily, that is.  

I am not sure how we are gonna get along without her here in squamlandia-- she brings such clear strong energy to all of our projects as well as her bright, sophisticated style that is the perfect counterpoint to her dark humor.  

Wait-- you didn't know that Sissy has a way with the sarcastic bon mot? Oh, my friends, don't let that pretty face fool you-- girl knows how to mix it up good.

And, as much as we are all thrilled for her and big Vijay for the new addition to their family-- we will be chomping at the bit until she is back in our midst helping us make things beautiful, me most especially.

bisous, e

*remember-- this was our very first year, they had no idea what they were signing up for!  I am forever inspired by their courage and wild hearts.

 

Brittany Soucy: Photo by proud Papa Soucy                                                                

Sarah Ahearn : Photo by Chritine Chitnis                                                                      

Trey Coughlin's cute little feet: Photo by Thea Coughlin                                                            

Elwood Ingman held by Natalie Selles (who came to Squam to help care for him so his momma Megan, could teach her classes): Photo by Thea Coughlin                                                      

Nina Glibert on top of Rattlesnake Mountain: Photo by fellow Mama Brittany Soucy                      

Harper Soule: Photo by Amanda Blake Soule                                                                

Pixie Campbell and Family: Photo by Thea Coughlin                                                    

Christine Chitnis and Vijay: Photo by Grandma Marianne Boukamp                                                    

Veda Dullaghan: Photo by Papa Colin Dullaghan

 

 

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EM

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Christine said:
awww...thanks guys, you are making me blush!! I'm sure I will be missing you terribly when I am buried alive in dirty diapers! But I shall return!
Karen said:
Love this E .. I was JUST talking abou this yesterday. I had a small art gathering at my house and there were two artsy mama's who have shown interest in Squam but worry about leaving their loved ones behind. I told them there have been babes and even a husband or two at Squam. And they have never seemed intrusive, and I loved seeing both the babes and the husbands supporting their significant others...there is still plenty of adult fun to be had!

xoxo
Karen
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Amanda Chea said:
I love this post Elizabeth. The upcoming Squam by the Sea will be my first time attending. It will also be my first time away from my little girl for any extended period of time. Our little family unit is pretty attached to each other so while I know it will be good for us and worth it, it's still gonna be hard to leave her and her Daddy here. I love seeing how this community embraces their beautiful Mamas and their families. So many times, those little families are where we draw much of our inspiration from.
Michelle F. said:
Ohdude! allow me to gush for a moment.

Maxwell's Squam initiation was at age 4 weeks (yes, 4 weeks exactly) when this momma came up to visit the Squam Sisters she had met the Spring before . I didn't attend (for obvious reasons) but I couldn't miss the chance to catch up with my new old friends (we live only 2 hours away). We came up for the art fair and then visited with them afterward. Tiny little Max was passed around the room as he slept...for two whole hours! Which at the time was a rarity. There was just so much comfort in that room. Oh, and did I mention those lovely ladies made us a quilt!? Yeah. They all pitched in and sewed a square and then one of them assembled the whole thing and well, I am still speechless an entire year later. This is the deep magic I'm talking about people.

Christine, best to you!!
michelle gd said:
love the support squam provides for mamas and their babes.
and love and admire the courage these mamas have for getting squam into their lives.
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